we want one. my fiance's mom and dad were going to host it...but its less than four months to the wedding date and they still have chosen a place....they originally wanted fazolis, and along with my father, we can't eat anything there we end up in the bathroom....esp dad..he's worse he's 64 and cant handle it. lol.
we're afraid it's not going to get done if someone doesn't get on the ball soon and we want a rehearsal dinner.Is it ok to host your own rehearsal dinner?
Alright, so I'm a bit late to chime in but here's my 2-cents for what it's worth.
(a) There's nothing wrong with hosting your own rehearsal dinner - not only is it a "dry-run" but a way to say thank you to all of your attendants. Yes, traditionally, it is to be paid for by the grooms-side, but if they can't or won't or whatever, there's no reason why you shouldn't step up and take the reigns.
(b) You have so many options on what to do- ranging from a formal dinner to an informal gathering, so again - THIS IS YOUR WEDDING- do what YOU want.
some ideas - You may already have seen these, didn't read through the answers you alreay have gotten.
~*~ If affordable, you can always have it at a restaurant. Many will offer a "limited menu" with a price per person for a rehersal dinner so just ask.
~*~ If a restaurant is NOT affordable, hold it at someone's home or (like suggested for the bridal shower) at a community center or apt. clubhouse or somewhere you like the looks of - Food can be VERY simple and still be elegant. Meat and Cheese Trays, Fruit %26amp; Veggie Trays are staples that offer choices to even the pickiest of eaters, then - if you are feeling adventurous, I can give you some GREAT recipes that are sure to impress - they are easy and look like they take a lot of work- Just let me know if you want them. Mom and %26amp; did all of the cooking for my wedding and it was SUPER SIMPLE and wasn't tacky at all....most of what we made is food that can be made a few days before so for the salads, we would do one a day - no biggie...I just wish I were closer... I'd take care of it all!!!! :( Let me know if I can be of any help!
If your future in laws balk at the idea of you throwing your own rehearsal dinner, just share that due to dietary issues with various bridal party members, you felt this would be the least stressful on everyone... and then perhaps they can kick in on the cost.Is it ok to host your own rehearsal dinner?
Go ahead and do the party trays - its your wedding, you should be relaxed and having fun.. We did a dinner (catered in by a Italian restaurant), costed about $300 for 25 people and had it in the backyard. We had a blast...... Congrats on your wedding..
I went to a rehearsal dinner once that was in a back yard and we had fried chicken. It was great, very laid back.
Our rehearsal dinner was a fish fry on the beach. Since our wedding was small (14 people) it was really easy to accommodate. And it was very laid back. After wards we had a big bonfire on the beach.
A rehearsal dinner does not have to be fancy. And I say the less stress, at that point, the better. So host away and have it how you want it.
Good luck and congrats!Is it ok to host your own rehearsal dinner?
We are but we're thinking his Dad will pay (he has in the past for the other Wedding Rehearsal Dinners) *fingers %26amp; toes crossed;)*
Nothing wrong w/ you guys hosting...you know everyone the best afterall %26amp; that is were you present the gifts to your Bridal Party.
Hi. Yes, it is certainly acceptable to host your own rehearsal dinner. Where will you have it is the question? If you want casual, such as meat and cheese trays....then it sounds like a "home" rehearsal dinner, which is fine. But I know you live in an apartment. Hmmmm...Does your apartment complex have an activities room that you can rent out? I know many do. Otherwise, do you or your fiance have another place in mind (relatives backyard?)
If you look at restaurants, then, of course, you will need to pay for everyone's meal.
A pizza place is another idea. Many, many couples are doing this now. My son was in 2 weddings and the rehearsal dinner was causual with pizza.
I agree with researching what you want and where you want it now! You don't have long to go!
Good luck!Is it ok to host your own rehearsal dinner?
I believe that the brides family is suppose to host this. Your wedding can be anything you want it to be though. We try our best not to hurt any ones feelings, so maybe your parents, his parents and the couple should spend an evening together and split the cost and the responsibility. Have the trays along with what ever else. Let one family choose the drinks the other the food etc. There has to be a happy medium here. Hurry give something a try before it's to late. Best Wishes
Yes I think it's cool to host your own dinner. IT'S YOUR WEDDING!!!! I think that if you and your family can't decide on a place to eat at, then just find a nice catering service and a big room to serve all your guest in...
GOOD LUCK %26amp; CONGRATS!
yes... if it make s you happy. it is your wedding. Congratulations.
I think it would be fine. We are just having a BBQ at our place for ours... people are already stressed about the wedding so something nice and relaxing is my way of thinking. Lol. Good luck!
I think it is perfectly fine to host your own rehearsal dinner (just keep in mind you'll have to pay for it!)...you should have your fiancee talk to his parents and tell them your concerns. Do you have a resturant that is special to the two of you? Maybe the first place you guys ate together? Maybe suggest that you want a place for the sentimental reasons!
Also, if you can't settle on a place, I know some people that have had it at someone's house and that has turned out nice. Good luck!!!
Go ahead girl,I know of a few people who have done ths.It seems like the new thing to do,so go ahead book it.鈾?/div>
Have your fiance take care of the details if his parents aren't doing it. With ours, we took care of most everything and his mom basically just decorated for it. She still thought that they were hosting it but really we took care of the details.
Some people just aren't good at planning things but be careful not to step on her toes.
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